this is not just the hospital though, gaborone in general seems to move at its own pace. in some ways it's nice (anyone who knows me knows that when it comes to being on time i was born in the wrong country)....lunch is always ALWAYS an hour - at a minimum - and no one misses lunch. that is unless you're the freshly graduated resident who's used to missing lunch....though i'm realizing that if everyone else stops for lunch, so should i! tea is not a privilege, it's a right...and one that comes twice a day (change that to coffee and i'm set :)). however, in other ways it's been a serious test of patience...there is no sense of urgency to get things done, period. whether trivial or life-saving it will get done when it gets done, or when you do it yourself. coming from a drive-thru culture to more of a crockpot culture (cheesy analogy, sorry) is challenging to say the least. my patience is apparently non-existent these days, and the thing is i get just as frustrated by my dinner order taking 2 hrs as i do a lab test taking 3 days! problem #1: i'm ridiculous. problem #2: i have to realize that i am the stranger here....my culture and sense of how things should be is not the norm. the struggle is not to judge them by my standards but instead to learn theirs. so far i am not succeeding in this, but i pray for grace that is so much bigger than me and peace in the process.
on to lighter things....while i'm mostly work and studying for boards these days, true to form i'm still trying to make time to play :) below are some pictures from a hike this weekend - it's called kgale hill, and while it sounds benign the straight up rock climb to get to the top is not easy! apparently only expats climb it cause when we stopped to ask some locals for directions they looked at us like we were crazy. thankfully we saw no snakes, and the baboons that are the supposed kings of the hill did not come out to play....truth be told baboons kinda scare me so i wasn't sad.
this week i'm attending in the NICU.....ummm, yikes! the first few days the neonatologist will be there and then i'm on my own for the second half of the week. which by the way is CRAZY because most people do a 3 yr fellowship before running a NICU, but apparently that's a minor detail. thankfully the medical officers (MOs) here are very good and spend a lot of time in the NICU, so hopefully between all of us the babies will be ok. scary larry is all i have to say....till next time!
Bri,
ReplyDeleteI have been telling everyone I know about your adventures.
I am saying a prayer for you !!
You did well in the roundabouts, I am sure you will do great in the NICU!!!
Love and Faith
Dad
both of our lives are full of changes! i am praying for patience for you (and me) as we adjust. i'm sure you'll do great with the NICU babies -- just try to channel Dr. Walsh ;)
ReplyDeleteno webcam yet, but i'm working on it. i miss you very much -- love you! midge
Bri,
ReplyDeleteYou are so brave to be so adventurous! All the possible critters you might encounter on your hikes!!
Speaking of patience, I read this written by Oswald Chambers:
The patience of the saints, like the patience of our Lord, puts the sovereignty of God over all the saint's career,and because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost, we choose by our free will what God predestin-
ates, for the mind of God, the mind of the Holy Spirit, and the mind of the saint are all held
together by a oneness of personal passionate de-
votion. ----------Much love, Gr-Aunt Nancy & Gr-
Uncle Ray
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ReplyDeleteDarling Brianna,
ReplyDeleteI want to wish you the happiest of birthdays; unfortunately my Secretary Bird (a Botswan native!) couldn't get a proper birthday card to you this year! It sounds like you are having wonderful experiences; I understand that transition of life's pace problem. Living in NYC for 8 years and then coming back to Buffalo was pretty wild, but I got used to it very soon. It is nice to smell the roses! I love you, sweetheart. Let me know how you celebrate your first Botswanian birthday!
Love,
Aunt Maggie